Using Feng Shui to Fill Your Home with Romance
According to Bagua Energy Map of Black Sect Feng Shui, the back right area of any area home (from the front door) is the source of energy that supports the female head of household and her relationships. This is an area of Earth energy and it should ground strong foundations for strong relationships. When the house is shaped in a rectangular or square shape, that part of the energy field is included within the walls of the house. If the house is not rectangular, then the woman will not be supported by her physical environment. This can be cured, however.
Avoid houses with…
- this area missing
- bathroom to the back right of the master bed on the far wall in this space
- lots of water here - a pool outside, laundry room, water heater, etc.
The old saying is true about “if the mama ain’t happy, ain’t no one happy.” If this area is challenged by water, add plants and Wood elements. Plants drink Water and their roots hold Earth. In addition, activate the Earth element in every Marriage gua (area) of the house - back right from the door that is in the closest, straightest line to the front door.
When the female head of household is strongly supported, she can then support the male head of household, whose energy field is Metal. All metal comes from the breast of the Earth. If she’s tapped out, there is nothing left to uplift or support the male.
If you would like to invite a new spouse into your home, you must first make room for them to be there. If you are looking for a mate, Feng Shui recommends that you clear out a closet, half the drawers you use or double the dressers, and make room for them to integrate into the bathroom. To marry and bring in a new mate, it is recommended that you perform a major energy clearing to delete any vibrations from previous relationships. Then repaint, recarpet, and recover furniture. Look to the front right area of the house for the male head of household energy support. If this is your garage, and it is packed with junk, you won’t be having a man move in with you unless he wants to be ignored, abused, and disrespected. Look to the front right area of every room and activate the Metal energy there with art, angels, ancestors, and travel souvenirs. Maps and globes are really good here too.
Avoid houses with…
- fireplace in this area
- stove, dryer, heater, or television in this area
- connection to the electrical pole attaching to the exterior of this area
- driveway dead-ending aimed at this area
The presence of a strong Fire element here, as Fire melts Metal. To counterbalance too much Fire in the Metal gua (area), add Earth. Earth smothers Fire and generates Metal. So if there is a fireplace there, you want a stone hearth. If there are appliances there, you want a stone floor. If the electrical box is there, paint the walls sand, taupe, or ash gray. If the driveway dead-ends at the windows of this room, Add a garden between the wall and the car. Even a container garden will do.
There must be space made in the mind and heart, as well as in the environment. Clutter is a problem in your thoughts and feelings, as well as in your closets. Remove anything from environment that makes you think of other people, past choices, or solitary days. Likewise, remove anything that makes you feel guilty, angry, or sorrowful over should haves. Finally, sell, donate, or store fully half of your furniture to make room for your new partner’s stuff. Even if they don’t have the stuff you do, there must be room for the two of you to acquire new stuff together or there won’t be anything qualified as OURS.
If you have a two car garage, make room for BOTH of your cars. Not either/or. Both. If you can’t accomplish this, your new relationship won’t survive because he won’t feel that he has a place to be. Garages are very much a “guy space.” Even if they aren’t a tinkerer, they are guys - and guys like toys. Unless you want a bike in your bedroom, get your crud out of the garage. And get TWO garage door openers.
As the Pillsbury Dough Boy said, "Nothing says lovin' like something from the oven." Kitchens are sources of nurturing, just as moms are. If you want to provide such nurturing for your relationship, stock some stuff in the freezer that you can pop in the oven to feed the kid in everyone. Many don’t cook, but you can and should have fresh fruit in the house. All people eat. If they don’t eat at home, they will eat out. Same goes for getting love...
The most important spot in the house is the bedroom, because you spend a third of your time there. Place the bed in the command position with a solid headboard - for Black Tortoise support. Choose queen over king as the king box springs is split, and thus so is the foundation of the relationship. Add matching bedside tables and lamps, but place sliders on the feet of the bedside table to the left of the bed (when you are laying with your head on the pillows). This activates Green Dragon support. Tall furniture to the left of the bed, low furniture to the right - for White Tiger support. If you don’t have an unobstructed view of the door for Red Phoenix support, place mirrors so that you can see the door from the pillows.
Bathrooms are places of such privacy. Respect that privacy. Honor their need to tend to their body privately as you want to be honored. It is never a good idea to poop in front of your lover. Nor is it nice to share the odor with them. Provide candles, matches, air freshener, etc. Add audio support so they can mask the sound of their bodily functions. Music works, but I have witnessed running water as a solution. Provide baskets for laundry, plenty of toilet paper, and personal wipes. Provide trash cans wherever they may be needed. Buy a bouquet for the house and tuck a couple of stems into a little vase to add the freshness of live flowers and change everything for what most men have experienced in a bathroom.
